Having a child is hard for a sixteen
year old girl. At
first I was scared thinking about what my grandparents would do to
me,
so I hid my pregnancy for a few months. Everyone was telling me that
I
was getting fat. At that time, I had a best friend and I told her that
I was pregnant. She promised she would keep my secret, but she went
aned told everyone in the school. The whole town heard about it.
My grandmother called me and asked me if I was having
a baby, and I told her no. That was a lie. I hid my belly until I
was five months
pregnant. When my grandparents found out, they put me out of the house
and stoned me.
I had to stop going to school. I had nowhere to
live. My mother was in the United States. I had no sisters or brothers
and no one I
could talk to. The child's father did not stand up to his
responsibility, so I was alone as I carried the baby for nine months
inside of me. The first time I felt the baby move, I felt very happy
about it. Soon the child was born and I took care of her the best way I
could.
Now my beautiful baby girl is grown up. She completed
high school and went on to college. She works for the state of New
Jersey as a
caseworker. My life changed a lot, but it made me into a better person.
My daughter gave me a reason to live my life.
I have had four children and a beautiful granddaughter. My husband
and I are very proud of them. I am in school now, hoping one day to get
my GED and then a nursing degree.
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