After 22 years of marriage we (me
and my ex-husband) decided to end our marriage. This was the saddest
and the most difficult decision in my life but I thought that certainly
this was the right thing to do.
My kids were 16 and 14 years old and suffered with
the separation. I tried to compensate to them with keeping peace
in my home. After that, and until now my daughter and my son are
absolutely more responsible. I had been paying for all the things
they need: food, clothes, college, gym, mobile phone, cable TV, educational
courses, etc. Those things are pleasure for me to do because my children
are special to me. They are the most important reason for my life.
Since
coming to the US, they have grown so quickly. Nowadays, both are
working and paying for their own clothes. They are living in different
cities and they cook, wash their clothes, clean their apartments
and pay for their gas.
I was divorced six years ago and when I look back,
I have the satisfaction that I can see how much progress my family
has made. The three of us
are very good friends. Our life has not been easy but our union
and our family’s
love increases day by day in our relationship.
Years later, I still think that was the correct
decision. |